tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2112689550819095547.post6820251429093372394..comments2023-04-01T10:52:26.721+01:00Comments on Take my hand and my whole life too...: elopement....Simone - Take My Hand My Whole Life Toohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07280819064240361013noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2112689550819095547.post-48886827773523237362011-02-14T12:14:38.814+00:002011-02-14T12:14:38.814+00:00I agree wiht the others sound advice. If I was yo...I agree wiht the others sound advice. If I was you my priority would be to get out of there and start you live together the two of you. Which doesn't have to mean marriage it could mean living together and enjoying that and doing what you want for a change.<br /><br />You deserve to be happy but a big wedding won't make you that when everyone else is tearing you in a million directions.<br /><br />If you want to get married soon then elopement could be the answer and then it will be your special day but just make sure it is the right decision for you bith. There is no rush remember that.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00298007276718492716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2112689550819095547.post-81488117076570072882011-02-11T15:27:21.405+00:002011-02-11T15:27:21.405+00:00I agree. Get out. You don't need to prove anyt...I agree. Get out. You don't need to prove anything to anyone with the wedding. You are together, you support each other - now get the hell out of that house. <br /><br />Getting out needs to be your priority because this is just insanely destructive. A big wedding is a luxury - right now, you need essentials, not luxuries - somewhere to live and the education for your degree. Sort these things out first and if you still want to marry, do it on your own terms and do not invite any of these people who seem out to destroy you - or at least, threaten not to unless they grow the hell up. Elope if you want, but realise that you may never talk to these people again. But then - would that be so bad?clairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12488607759792842678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2112689550819095547.post-40750267098812523052011-02-11T13:56:55.188+00:002011-02-11T13:56:55.188+00:00Ok sweetheart having taken it all in here's ho...Ok sweetheart having taken it all in here's how I see it;<br /><br />You are living at his Mums house. Your priority should be getting the hell out of there and renting your own place rather than trying to fathom how to pay for a wedding. Weddings are expensive no matter how you try and do it, Weddings cause upset in the family no matter how you try to do it, you will always upset someone along the way you can't please them all but I think relationships would be better all round if you and your beloved had your own place. <br /><br />Then theres the subject of the degree you would like to do, can you afford to do that and get married? <br /><br />To me it seems as though something has to give, or be put on hold for the time being, whether that be moving out, your degree, or your wedding.<br /><br />However if being married is really something you want, then I would get on the next plane to Thailand and tie the knot :o) xxJen Loves Joyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12953583236061267658noreply@blogger.com